add ons to the previous post. also a reply to ken in the tag:

Seriously, everyone should learn the virtue of not snatching and sharing. i mean, honestly, when you ARE an old lady carrying bags of stuff, would you curse the other pple for not giving you their seats? the thing is that when you SEE an old lady like that, won't you pity her and give her ur seat? surely she needs it more than you do? and the pregnant ladies too. i noe for guys you cant experience it but tink about ur wife or future wife, someone you love if you wanna call it. she is carrying your child and suffering in silent. the pain of carring a 10kg rice sack in ur tummy, can u IMAGINE the pain? And to the pple who likes to stare at me, carrying my san xian, instead of trying to guess wat the hell issit, it would be more appreciated of you would jus give me ur seat if u r carrying light. im not saying that you SHOULD do it but at least think of the pple who needs the seat MORE than you do.

and for the snatching of seats part. c'mon lah, even if you want the seat so much can you at least wait for me to get up b4 pushing urself to get seated. i mean, if i cant get out, you cant get in! the thing is that your aim is to get the seat b4 anyone gets it and mine is to get out coz its my stop. so y not jus use ur brain and let me out FIRST b4 i get frustrated and push u away to let the others get sitted.

lastly: (the same o phrase) think of the person who needs something more than you do.